Three Weeks!!


Yes, that’s right. It’s DMB time baby!  Three weeks from today, Dave Matthews Band will be in Raleigh at Walnut Creek Pavilion for the 2015 tour.   We have tickets, and CANNOT wait!  Dave is never a bad show.  Never!  Even when he plays a more mellow or subdued set list, it still rocks.  I can’t remember a show I didn’t like, and I’ve seen over 24 of them.  We went to last years show in Raleigh, and have seen them in several other states.  Front row, middle sections, acoustic shows, amphitheaters, stadiums and arenas. Never a bad show!


This year we are going with some good friends of ours, and looking forward to a great time. We are carpooling up to Raleigh together, staying at the same hotel, and then heading to the show together to tailgate and enjoy some DMB.   A few other friends will be joining us for some tailgating, so it will be a great time had by all.  DMB is such an awesome atmosphere.  If you’ve never been to a DMB show, I highly recommend it.  And this year will be similar to last year, where there is no opening act.  It is only DMB.  They play an acoustic set first, and then come back on for an electric set.  They may have special guests join them, but they don’t have a opening act.   They are their own opening act.  And they are AWESOME!

Eat Drink and Be Merry!!

So if you are in the Raleigh area on May 22, let me know and maybe we can all party together for a great evening of good friends and great music!

Who is your favorite band?  Are you a roadie?  Seen them more than once?  




Well, 2014 is quickly coming to a close. The Holidays are just about over, and what a week it’s been.  A great Christmas with my wife and boys.  We got a new trampoline for the boys, and they’ve already spent hours upon hours of jumping on it.  We ate lots of good food and watched most of our Christmas movies.  I got some great presents from the boys, those really thoughtful ones that I will remember forever.

typawxmas present for dad

Clemson won their bowl game on Monday, and can you say Woodshed!



With this being New Year’s Eve, we look back at what 2014 was.  And what a year it has been.   We completed our first full year here in Wilmington, NC.  The boys are doing well in school and sports.  Kelli completed the Boston Marathon and her first triathlon, a 1/2 iron distance event at the Beach2Battleship Triathlon.  We went to a Red Sox – Yankees game at Fenway Park.  I completed my first marathon, the Savannah Rock-n-Roll Marathon.  We started coaching a running group at the Middle School my 12 year old attends, and I’m implementing a new Watch D.O.G.S. program at the elementary school my 8 year old attends.  We attended a Dave Matthews Band concert.  We have been rather busy with all the training, kids sporting events, volunteering events, and just some small family vacations.

It has been a year of firsts, a year of some failures, and a year of some successes.   I’m sure everyone can relate to this, and you have all probably had your own successes and failures this year.  And with it being New Year’s Eve today, we turn our focus towards 2015.  What will it bring?   Will you make resolutions to work out more, eat less chocolate, drink less beer, be more of a community volunteer?  What will it be?

New Year's Resolutions

I have a thought on resolutions.  I have never really ever kept a resolution that I’ve made. I thought that I would, but come March or April, I usually forget what my resolution even was.   I think this year I will take a different approach, more of a goal setting mindset, or as a friend of mine is using, focusing on a keyword for the year.  There are lots of different things I want to do, but don’t want to write the list as a “resolution”.  Maybe resolutions work for some people, but not for me.  I want to enjoy life a little more, spend more time with family enjoying the things that makes us happy (not that we aren’t already happy as a family, just do more without worrying as much with others’ thoughts).  I want to get out of my comfort zone, reach outside of my “box” persay, and do different things.

I will use 2015 to do more things that I usually procrastinate on.  I plan to run more 1/2 marathons.  I plan to complete more projects around the house.  I will turn 40.  I need to communicate more, speak my mind instead of keeping it inside.  So my word is ASSERTIVE.   I will be more assertive at home, at work, in the community, speaking my mind.  I will not be a jerk about things, I’ll keep others thoughts and feelings in my mind when speaking and acting, but I need to spend this year also finding me, doing more for me and finding myself.

So my word is ASSERTIVE  (minus the “ASS”).

What is your word? What are your goals?  What will be your resolutions?

Not yet…Not yet….

That’s what I’m thinking.  It has come to quickly. Christmas Eve is upon us.   We have so much to many movies to watch, so many songs to sing….so much fun to be had.   Kelli and I agreed to continue to celebrate Christmas until New Years in order to get all the movies in and enjoy all the music.  We just can’t get it all done today and tomorrow.   But, we will take the time to remember the reason for this special Holiday.  The coming of the baby, the star, the gifts and the presence of Hope.  I wish all of you a Merry Christmas and hope your holiday is a special one with friends and family.



As It Quickly Approaches

As Christmas quickly approaches us this week, there are SO many things to do.  SO many movies to watch, SO many cookies to eat, candy to eat, lights to see…..I want to do it ALL!   Christmas comes once a year. Some begin celebrating it at Thanksgiving, some celebrate all year, and some people wait until Christmas Eve to really celebrate.

For me, I begin listening to Christmas music around Thanksgiving.  This year a few weeks before, as Thanksgiving fell late in the month of November.  I listen to music secretly, on my ipod with headphones in at work, and not at home. My wife loves Christmas music, but too much of it from Thanksgiving on, gets to be too much.  But now that this week has arrived, ALL the Christmas music is on.  We have our favorites..”Michael W. Smith, Bing Crosby, Frank Sinatra, Toby Mac”, etc.  The only music to be played in our house this week will be Christmas related.  We started off this week by attending the “Christmas Stories” tour with Jason Gray, Lauren Daigle and Carrolton on Sunday night.  It was different than what we expected, but great music and amazing voices.  These people can really sing.  The message behind the entire concert makes you remember the reason for the season.



Now it is time to watch ALL the movies.  We have to watch “It’s a Wonderful Life”, “Miracle on 34th “, “White Christmas”, “A Christmas Story”, “National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation”, etc. etc. etc.  There are SOOO many movies to watch, yet so little time.  We could sit around and watch all day, but the kids get restless. 2 boys, ages 12 and 8, love to watch movies, but only in small doses.  They get ancy, restless.  So we spend time outside, playing football, enjoying each other. But then that takes away from movie time.  But I’d much rather have them happy and enjoy them than regret it later for not spending enough time with them.

Family is in town, so eating out and laughter is bound to come with it.  We’ve eaten out several times over the past week since family arrived.  As you can see, the kids (and adult kids) enjoy playing with their food.

food smile 1food smile 2food smile 3

So everyone enjoy the last few days leading up to Christmas.  Remember the real reason for the season.  Read books, read the Nativity Story, watch the movies, head to church, whatever it is you do, enjoy this time with family and friends and have a smile on your face.

What will you do these last few days? What movies will you be watching? Still have shopping to do?